Sometimes the Lord calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms His child.We have all heard popular sayings like this, designed to encourage us and push us forward.
A piece of coal must go through thousands of years of heat and pressure before it becomes a diamond.
A beautiful pearl is the result of irritation and pain caused by a single grain of sand.
As survivors we often feel that we have had all the heat, pressure, irritation and pain we can possibly handle! But, if we allow ourselves to look back at all the things we've learned, the wonderful people we've met, our increase in compassion and understanding, and our slowness to judge those around us, hopefully we can honestly say that we are grateful for what we have gained. We must learn to turn the darkness of the past into light.
As we struggle to make something good out of that which is so wrong and ugly, we can find hope and peace in the following scripture:
"My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment. And if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes." (D&C 121:7-8)